Interpersonal Communication With The Enneagram

">personality number does not translate to being better
or worse.
The Enneagram is a dynamic personality profilingYou will come across different Eneagram teachings
system that allows us to dramatically improve thethat use different words to describe the types. Do
way we communicate with others. When you areremember that the descriptions are really for
able to understand the personality type of anotherillustration and are meant to help you understand the
person, you know the motivation for their behaviourstype better. Different sources will use different
and find it easier to understand and accept them. Inwords to describe each type, so you need not get
addition, you'll know what works for them, and youconfused over that.
can phrase your words accordingly. The Enneagram isEach personality type has got nine levels of health,
one of the many personality profiling systems in thestarting from the healthiest at level one, to the
world today. However, its origins remain relativelyunhealthiest at level nine. So if you compute all
unclear. There are groups of people who believe thatpossible combinations using the wings and lines, along
the Enneagram first originated in the 10Th or 11Thwith levels of health, you are looking at potentially
century among the Sufi, which is a mystical sect offour hundred and eight six variations of personality
Islam. There are also others who believe that thetypes.
Enneagram existed much earlier, back in 2500 B.C. inWith so many possible combinations, how do you
Babylon, the middle east of today.accurately profile somebody? Unlike many other
Regardless of when the Enneagram was created, itpersonality profiling that requires the use of surveys
still remains a very accurate tool to profile peopleor questionnaires, you can actually profile somebody
today, simply because human nature has not reallywith the Enneagram simply through observation.
changed all these years.Of course, the length of time for your observation
The Enneagram is also one of the few dynamicwill definitely affect the accuracy of your profiling.
profiling systems around. Instead of boxing peopleThough we will effectively be of only one basic type,
up, it describes how a person will behave whenevery one of us will react according to different
feeling good or under stress, and shows the way asituations and environments that we are in.
person should grow in order to achieve his or herTherefore, it is no surprise that we will display
potential in life.characteristics of all nine personality types throughout
In total, there are nine basic personality types, andour lives. So the best time to observe someone is
these personalities are described using numbers,during their down-time, or most natural state.
instead of words. The reason for using numbers is toYou can still use a questionnaire to profile somebody,
keep things neutral. Words have a tendency toor to confirm your observations. However, with time
create meaning in our minds, and we mightand practice, you will realise that you can make do
unknowingly become biased towards certain typeswithout a questionnaire. That would give you a huge
because of cultural or societal influence.boost in improving your interpersonal communication
Thus, the nine types are denoted by numbersskills, and will definitely add greater value to you as
ranging from one to nine, and the numbers bearan effective communicator.
similar weights, which means that having a bigger