| The communication also includes knowing about, and | | | | appear to a commissioner in charge of an |
| I know that many men have difficulty with this | | | | investigation, see what happens : |
| communication tool. Indeed, some can no longer | | | | Dude: You live where? |
| speak after a time, others can not have a discussion | | | | She: A few blocks away |
| that will really interest women, there are many | | | | Guy: Weird, I come here often and I never saw you, |
| problems associated with the seduction conversation | | | | you would not be a liar by chance. (Said in the tone |
| among men and we see how to fix it. | | | | of the joke) |
| First, answer the question "what? . As discussed | | | | Dude: You do not go out often? |
| above, it is useless to try to impress the women you | | | | She: Yes, but I do not stay in this neighborhood. |
| encounter in abuse of scientific theory, philosophical | | | | At this stage, do not ask another question like "What |
| or otherwise, because it's too boring, monotonous | | | | are you doing in life? "Because it creates a break, and |
| and often virtually devoid of any emotion because | | | | you tap into your supply of subjects. It is better to |
| this are about sound. Be a little more superficial it can | | | | continue on the same subject by asking, "Really? |
| not hurt you. | | | | Why not? "And possibly adding a comment humorous |
| I will obviously not say that women are superficial, | | | | and ironic style: |
| but when it comes to having a good time with | | | | "But there is everything a girl can dream look here, a |
| someone they do not particularly want to enter | | | | bakery ... pharmacy ... well as ways to have fun here." |
| discussions too rational, their aim is primarily to | | | | Once the topic reviewed thoroughly, you will |
| entertain and if you're smart and educated they are | | | | eventually pass to his passions, his leisure and focus |
| very good qualities in seduction, but you do not need | | | | on what really pleases him. |
| to display, it will feel all alone and it will give you even | | | | If despite this you find yourself in a situation where |
| more desirable! | | | | there is a "white", do not worry, keep your |
| "Only the weak are agitated and trying to show their | | | | confidence, as it happens and it is ABSOLUTELY not |
| strength." | | | | serious unless it stresses you and it shows ... You |
| Talk about what surrounds you, facts that you know | | | | must, in any situation to keep control of yourself (it's |
| will be interested (that is to say, not football! Unless | | | | also very masculine that). |
| she told you she was interested of course ...) and | | | | Again, the humor can save you and make you good |
| make the talk about it. | | | | services. For example, if "white" say something like: |
| Why the need to talk about it you ask me? It's | | | | Well! That's all you tell me? You know, if you want to |
| simple, here are 3 reasons: to speak of it should have | | | | seduce me he'll have to do better than that! |
| seemed more interesting to listen to you rant about | | | | And from then resume the conversation. You see |
| your life for half an hour (so if I assure you), then | | | | where I am getting? You'll see a little practice it |
| you learn things about them ( Sun Tzu, in "the art of | | | | becomes natural. |
| war, said that knowing your enemy is a very good | | | | Difference |
| thing) and finally it will maintain the mystery that | | | | Another concept is the difference and for that, by |
| surrounds you and him will still things to discover | | | | working hypothesis: |
| about you. | | | | Hypothesis |
| Now that we know what to say, answer the | | | | Returning to the example of computers and now |
| question "how? . You may be those who do not | | | | imagine that all computers are almost the same, they |
| know how a conversation interesting, fulfilling and | | | | have a case which differs a little from time to time, |
| fluid. Some of you are probably faced with the | | | | but all machines have roughly the same performance |
| problem of "white" who frequently arrive in a | | | | ... |
| conversation and it bothers you. | | | | In this case, the business of a dealer may be difficult |
| Do not worry, I was in the same situation but now I | | | | because you have nothing to differentiate yourself |
| can not brag too much, that I am able to hold a | | | | from the competition, ie nothing special that will |
| discussion with a woman who will experience feelings | | | | ensure that customers come to you rather than |
| of very complex and 'increasing desire for me just by | | | | another ... For cons If a competitor takes a |
| talking. | | | | somewhat different model and that this difference is |
| Firstly, at the time of getting acquainted, you'll have | | | | more about quality than it is obvious that attract a |
| to ask many questions to get to know you. The | | | | mass of customers much more important than who |
| problem is that usually this kind of discussion quickly | | | | you have a trivial model. By cons, if the model is too |
| turns to a conversation-style interview. | | | | eccentric, it will appeal to only a small portion of the |
| Example: | | | | population (probably eccentric ellemême). |
| Guy: What's your name? | | | | Your goal will be to show your difference does not |
| She: Christine and you? | | | | seem trivial. Think, you have something that |
| Guy: Michael, you live where? | | | | differentiates you from others, and if this is not the |
| Her: Two blocks from here and you? | | | | case, there is still time to discover something that will |
| Etc etc ... | | | | differentiate you. |
| Let's add one of our magic ingredient: humor. | | | | Use your imagination! |
| Ex: | | | | So it is best to be different, but not to excess either. |
| Guy: What's your name? | | | | Remember that what is repetitive and predictable |
| She: Christine and you? | | | | monotone devoid of feeling and not surprisingly, in 1 |
| Guy: Jean-Claude Constantin Honore Gustave | | | | word: boring. |
| Theophile Gauthier, but you can call me Michael if you | | | | In other words, if you're predictable and / or react |
| want ... | | | | so always equal, you become boring and not |
| This gives another effect right? | | | | provoke any feelings in women (except boredom!). |
| Now, we take care of style, and learn to avoid the | | | | It is therefore vital to be, initially, sufficiently different |
| "style questioning" and the famous "white". The goal | | | | from other men to emerge from the mass, but also |
| here is to find a way to have a sustained | | | | vary your activities and reactions to be unpredictable! |
| conversation and scattered issues in the discussion. | | | | If you can do that women can not do without your |
| This will have to learn to continue the current | | | | presence so entertaining! |
| subjects while keeping the rest for later and | | | | FIND YOUR OWN STYLE AND BECOME |
| alternating questions and comments so as not to | | | | UNFORESEEABLE! |