God and the Gays: To Be or Not to Be (Part 1)

Homosexuality.... Is it a matter of choice? Are someHim too, but He considers love more than a
born that way? And if so, then how could Godfour-letter word: love is an attitude exemplified by
condemn it? Or does He? Does it make a difference?actions, words that are backed up with deeds (Jas.
Who offered it as an "alternative lifestyle?" Are2:26). That's why Jesus said that if we really loved
same-sex drives due to conditioning? Are gays andHim, we'd show it and not just say it (John
lesbians a quirk of nature? Something queer to jeer?14:15).Safe-SexSince God is love, and Father knows
Would it have been better to have never been born?best, He wants us to practice safe-sex. A safe-sex
All of these questions and more are only a few ofthat's good and wholesome, clean and pure, and only
the many that race through people's minds; causingavailable within a marriage where both partners keep
controversy, heated arguments and emotionaltheir vows and honor their commitments (Heb. 13:4).
wounds, as words fly back and forth carelessly.ItSexual intimacy, cuddling and coitus, belongs in the
could be safe to say that homosexuality is the resultbedroom (of the Biblically-bonded), and it's to involve
of many factors. But who's to blame? Must we eventhe union of both minds and bodies (Gen. 2:24).
lay a guilt-trap at anyone's door? Maybe mother, thenMarried couples are challenged to become compatible
again there's the father who didn't figure for tooin every sense of the word. A marriage certificate
much. Society? Genes? The stars? Most people knowdoesn't have to be "just a piece of paper" or
their sexual orientation by their teens. They don't justbecome another broken record! God does recognize
suddenly discover they're "straight" and "come out"the fact that marriage isn't for everyone (Mat. 19:11),
about it. Let's get real.Who's to accept thebut expresses His will that singles remain celibate (1
responsibility for our actions? Some have felt "gay"Thes. 4:3).God only promises to bless those foods (or
ever since they were very young and thereforerelationships) that are sanctioned by His Word (1 Tim.
imagine that they were born gay. Others seem to4:4-5). He's not unsure of Himself or His ways, He's
pick up, adopt or assimilate homosexual tendenciesnot fickle or foolish, and His Word is reliable,
through association. They must have already had andependable, and not subject to change. This hasn't
inclination towards it. It rubbed off on them. Thencaused the scriptures to be too popular at times, but
there are those who were bored and needed athey refuse to succumb to peer pressure and remain
change. They wanted to try it and see if they liked it.true to themselves. They're not what needs to
Sometimes, due to "force" of circumstances, men inchange anyway. We do. God hasn't lowered His moral
prison, boy's homes and/or monasteries, might resortstandards or compromised with His food laws, but
to homosexual activities. Later, as soon as possible,offers to help raise us to His God-Plane. Christ can
some of them revert to heterosexual ways, whilecleanse us of our unclean lives (Acts 10:15, 28),
others continue to enjoy the "best of both world" asbecause God hasn't called us to remain in Egypt but
a bisexual. Are "bestiality is best" fans born thatto head for the Promised Land. Don't just stand
way? Or are incestuous relationships somethingthere, get a move on it! And leave your excess
innate? Do we have a predisposition chemically forbaggage (sin) behind.Kosher FoodAlthough God
incest? Are we set up for such a fall from birth?created us with a hunger drive, an appetite, He
Would that justify or excuse us? Is promiscuitydoesn't want us to become gluttonous pigs. Neither
merely a part of man's "animal instincts?" Is thedoes He want us to act like horny dogs (1 Cor. 6:13).
challenge of the chase a primeval hang-over from theGod's also shown us that just because various food
"days of the hunt?" Actually, ALL of the above areitems have been mislabeled "delicacies," we don't
simply DISTRACTIONS! It's not a question of who orhave to shove them into our mouths (Lev. 11). We're
what we're most comfortable with, prefer, like or areexpected to be mature, not act childish. God warns
attracted to; those are only attempts to sidestepus to guard the doors of our mind, don't set
the real issue!God isn't only the Creator, but theourselves up for a fall, and discern what we digest
Sustainer of the entire universe. As such, his(Ephes. 4:27; Heb. 5:14). We're instructed to scrutinize
Majesty's Government - headquartered in the highestour food for thought and remember "we are what
heaven - has issued (at Mt. Sinai) various health ruleswe eat" and "we become what we think" (Prov.
and regulations (Malachi 4:4). The Creator-King has23:7). God doesn't only want us to watch what we
predetermined, in His infinite wisdom, which "food andput into our mouths, but what we allow into our
drugs" are safe and sound for our consumption.If weminds (Philip. 4:8). For a free list of "government
keep uppermost in mind the reason for our mortalapproved" food for thought; what's clean and
existence, the SUPREME PURPOSE for ourunclean, pure and impure, kosher and non-kosher -
human-being; to establish contact with ourcheck out Ga. 5:19-23; Ephes. 5:11 and Philip. 1:11.We're
Superior-Being and develop a relationship with Him -not supposed to remain raw material. God's given us
then we'll know and understand that everything Goda brain to become refined and keep our baser
does is for our benefit. God wants to help us, not"instincts" in line (2 Pet. 2:12). The Holy Spirit offers us
hinder us. He enjoys encouraging us to attain ourthe help we need to accomplish this job (John 1:12).
goals and fulfill our potential (Luke 12:31-32). FatherWe should refuse to be reduced to an animal level,
does know what's best: what He has in store for ussimply sensual creatures, choosing a higher standard
is beyond our wildest dreams (Ephes. 3:20; 1 Cor.of living instead. The "if it feels good do it" and "if it
2:9)!The High Cost of LivingWhoever chooses to be alooks good eat it" lack of mentality ought to be
card-carrying member of the homosexual communityregarded as an insult to those striving for God's
is entitled to all of it's privileges and persecutions; buthigher intelligence.Regardless of why you're gay,
you should first COUNT THE COST to see if it's toobisexual or "trysexual" (you'll try anything once),
high of a price for you to pay, like Christians are toldwhether or not you've had any choice in the matter -
to do (Luke 14:28).If anyone decides to engage inyou do have a choice to exercise proper self-control.
illicit sex or become entangled in "foreign affairs,"YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE A SLAVE TO YOUR
they're living a lie if they think that God could possiblySENSES (John 8:34), or allow sexual temptations to
approve of their improper conduct, and they'redictate mindless reactions (Gen. 19:4-11).You're not
compounding their problems if they lead othersforced to act upon every thought that enters your
astray by attempts to endorse such flagrant sinmind. You can resist suggestions and reject impulses
(Rom. 1:32). Do what you want, but don't(2 Cor. 10:5). Every fleeting thought, random idea or
misrepresent God and His clear-cut Biblical teachings.stray notion doesn't have to take root and grow if
Don't try and put words in His mouth or censor whatyou don't give it fertile ground (Jas. 1:13-15). You can
He's actually said (Rev. 22:18-19).Yes, GOD IS LOVE!consider its source and nip it in the bud. A "NO
That's why He hates certain practices with a passion.TRESPASSING!" frame of mind can be developed to
He frowns upon a dishonest life of stealing, andefend you against intruders. Protection is possible.
unfaithful habit of "cheating" on our spouse, aYou can say NO! You can curb your appetite! YOU
disrespectful attitude towards our parents or personsCAN CHANGE!David Ben-Ariel is a Christian-Zionist
in authority, religious holidays that are hollow andwriter and author of Beyond Babylon: Europe's Rise
don't hallow His name, senseless killings and characterand Fall. With a focus on the Middle East and
assassination, idolatrous distractions that comeJerusalem, his analytical articles help others improve
between God and us, an endless trivial pursuit andtheir understanding of that troubled region. Check out
preoccupation with ourselves and others, instead ofthe Beyond Babylon blog.
putting God first. God loves us and wants us to love